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1/19/2012

Dear Mr. Bautista re: PR507, January 12, 2012 -- my horrible flight experience with PAL (Philippine Airlines) --


We had the worst flight experience with PAL during our first international family trip last January 12.  (This trip was a post-birthday gift to me and my husband and an early birthday gift to my sister.)

In the Mabuhay magazine, Mr. Jaime Bautista has a space which provides his email address and asks readers to "tell him how they are" -- I sent this email to him (but my husband warned me that this will just end up in his Junk Mail folder.)

I have heard the same sentiment expressed by other people who have also experienced flight delays and cancellations (or knows someone who did) -- they all warned me that Philippine Airlines doesn't care.  ~sigh~ =(

If anyone knows anyone from PAL who would, at least, read/listen to my story, I would really appreciate it.

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January 16, 2012

Dear Mr. Bautista,

I would like to share with you our horrible travel experience with Philippine Airlines.

We decided to take our first international trip as a family using Philippine Airlines -- I had no doubts about my choice of airlines because I have traveled abroad using PAL and have experienced PAL at its best.  I was confident that my two kids (5 and 2) would be comfortable.  

We booked our tickets on September 25 for a trip from January 12 to 16, 2012.  We were travelling directly from Iloilo to Singapore, connecting through Manila --

We experienced our first setback 2 weeks before our flight (December 30) when I received an email from PAL informing us of our new flight schedule -- 1 hour later than the original time (1115 am instead of 1010am) --

Although it meant having to wait 4 hours between flights, we were determined not to let this affect our enthusiasm and excitement over our vacation.

We arrived from Iloilo without incident and were pleased with the very attentive service from the ground staff of Air Philippines who assisted us with our transfer to Terminal 2.  I foolishly thought this was a sign that our trip would be all positive.

Our international flight was not something I had anticipated to experience from Philippine Airlines.

We were first informed that our flight had been pushed back to 1230pm.  When 1230 came, and no boarding announcement was made, I became very worried and your ground staff would not provide us with sufficient information-- they kept telling us to wait for an announcement.

When the announcement was made, informing us that our flight had been cancelled, my heart plummeted.  We were told that our flight would be merged with the 920pm flight (PR505).

The cancellation of our flight caused us to lose precious time -- it also cost us 1-night stay at our hotel because it was too late to cancel our booking for the day.  We paid for 2 rooms which we did not use.  (More than US$400)

It also caused me endless worry -- we were scheduled to watch Wicked in Singapore on January 13 and were supposed to pick up our tickets one day before.  Because our flight was cancelled, I could not pick up my tickets.  Thankfully, Sistic still released our tickets when we explained our situation.

When we were issued new boarding passes for the 920pm flight, I was dismayed to see that my family was split up.  I have a 2 year old and a 5 year old and we paid for the booking class that allowed us to do advance seat selection and I made certain that our party of 6 would be sitting together.  (On our return flight to Manila today, our advance seat selection was also not honoured and we ended up sitting at row 64.  What is the point of this benefit if it would not be honoured?)

***My 2-year old was in 67A, My husband, me and Seth were in 67E, F and G.  My sister was in 71K.  

I was close to tears, trying to get my family seated together -- and your ground staff kept pointing out that because our flight was cancelled, we had to accept the new booking assignment.  I requested to speak to the person in-charge but he REFUSED to talk to me over your staff's phone.

At this point, my family had been traveling for more than 12 hours.  We were exhausted, physically and emotionally.  My children missed their naps and their medication.  The seating was another painful, unnecessary blow to us.

Thankfully, we were finally issued seats that were together.  (But this was after much pleading and waiting.)

Our 920pm flight eventually left at past 10 and we arrived in Singapore at 135 in the morning -- this was 12 hours later than our first expected arrival.

By the time we arrived in Singapore, we had no choice but to pay for a taxi service (S$50) since and the MRT and bus only operated until midnight.

We arrived in Singapore tired and very demystified with our terrible flight experience with PAL.

We had lost a day and we lost a bit of our budget due to circumstances forced on us by your airlines.

I am sitting here right now at the domestic terminal, writing this to you, because my PAL flight to Iloilo is LATE as well.  I approached your ground staff at the appointed boarding time and I was told, yet again, to "wait for the announcement" -- our flight is supposed to depart at 605pm and it is now 556pm -- no announcement has been made.

I have already contacted Chartis to inquire about our travel insurance, which we also purchased through PAL -- and I was informed to submit my request but that reimbursements for delays only counts for delays from 12 hours.

I will submit my report to them -- but, even if we receive monetary compensation, I wonder who can compensate me and my children for their first trip -- it is meant to be an experience of wonder -- but it left both my children exhausted and sleepless for almost 24 hours.  (My son now has anxieties and keeps asking if our plane is broken and if we have to stay up late again -- )

I wonder who can give us back the day we lost in Singapore and the tour we had planned for that afternoon.

A vacation is supposed to be a happy time and a time of relaxation and enjoyment -- my vacation was stressful -- the lack of empathy and consideration from your ground staff left me feeling very dehumanized. 

Your airlines owes my son a vacation where he won't be afraid that the plane is broken and that he cannot sleep in a bed because of it.



Sincerely,

Khristine, mom of Seth (5) and Annika (2)
Iloilo City

1/02/2012

Holiday challenge: Keeping the kids busy --

The kids have been on vacation since December 16 -- and we started out with grand plans of how to keep them occupied.  (piano, catching up on Filipino, etc. etc.) --

But all of my plans flew out the window -- I had a hard time coping with the holiday rush -- 

We did try to keep the kids active and moving.  We walked around the subdivision and did attempt to play a mix of tennis and badminton.

And we Wii-ed a lot.

Now that life has slowed down significantly (read: the holidays are over) -- we are trying to get back on track.

School starts on Wednesday.  I am so afraid for the teachers who will have their hands full with overly-active children.



12/08/2011

Christmas Wish List for Seth --

Seth is slowly getting to an age which I am not familiar with -- not baby and not toddler -- his interests are broadening and I want toys/gifts that would expand this further.


1.  Angry Birds: Knock on Wood





He and his classmates are crazy about Angry Birds and have decorated their file cases with stickers. (And the exchange stickers!)

This was being sold at Toy Kingdom and I regret not getting it when it was still available. (I was worried that the game would frustrate him -- the building part seems okay but the hitting part seems a bit challenging.)

2. Jenga



We actually have a small plastic replica of the game and he loves it! It's a great way for him to improve his fine motor skills. ^_^

(We also play pick-up sticks.)


We have a Gummi Advent Calendar right now (got it from SM for 99 pesos) -- and it's a great way for Seth to keep track of when Christmas is.

(It also saves me the trouble of explaining every day when Christmas will be.)

Muji has a nice DIY Advent Calendar but it wasn't available at Mall of Asia when we were there last November.

4. Mousetrap the Boardgame

He and Anya want it because it's similar to Pitagora Suichi --


(I actually got them volume 3 of the Pitagora Suichi DVD and I'll wrap it up and put it under the tree.)

5. More Lego. More Play-doh. More paints. More paper. More crayons. More ways for them to express their creativity.

... oh, and he needs shorts and pants. (He grows out of his clothes so quickly!)

Christmas Wish List for Anya --

For Anya:
1.  Cranium Playground



We have the Cranium Balloon Lagoon and Cranium Cariboo Island board games.  Anya really enjoys Cariboo Island and we have already moved from Beginner to Advanced mode.

I love Cranium games because they're fun for the kids (and for adults -- even my mom enjoys Cariboo Island) and the kids learn a lot of things: turn taking, alphabet, numbers, etc.

2.  CDs (and DVDs) from Super Simple Songs

I stumbled upon them on Youtube and I've had both kids enjoy them.  Anya sings along to the Alphabet Song and BINGO on Youtube.  (She also loves their version of Eensy Weensy Spider.)


They don't have DVDs of their Youtube videos.  I wish they did.


Whenever I drop the 2 off at Dave's Fun House, Anya immediately grabs one of these supermarket carts and pretends to go shopping with it.

4.  Leapfrog Cook and Play Potsy



We have the picnic toy from Leapfrog and it's such a great toy for a little girl.  We pretend to picnic and it's fun to see her set up the plates and food.  (It's a nice way to introduce food to her -- not that she eats them in real life.)

I think we will definitely be getting this for her.  We found one at SM yesterday.

5.  Shoes

She's quickly outgrowing her Crocs.  I'd love for her to get a pair of Salt Water Sandals for a change.




12/06/2011

Dating our kids --

One of the challenges of having more than 1 child is finding one-on-one time with all of them.

In our case, we usually take Anya out for breakfast (pancakes at Jollibee or donuts at Starbucks) after we bring Seth to school.

I like our time with her -- we are able to focus on our little girl and realize how independent she is becoming.

With Seth, it's usually lunch time, while waiting for Anya's class to finish.  A bridge is being fixed so our usual route home is experiencing very heavy traffic.  Instead of going back-and-forth, we just have lunch in SM and then head back to school to get Anya.

Seth is slowly getting to the age where he is never without a gaming console.  He enjoys playing Super Mario Bros on the DS and can get very absorbed in the game.

When we are having lunch together, all gadgets are turned off and are off the table.  We ask him how his day was and he talks about how all of his classmates are crazy for Angry Birds merchandise (stickers, etc).

What amazes me about Seth is how open he is to trying out new food -- the other day, we availed of our free meal at Kenny Rogers (thank you, Standard Chartered) and he asked to try my coleslaw.  (He didn't like it -- but he did give it a chance.)

We usually have enough time to squeeze in doing his homework -- so when we get home, it's really time for them to play and then take a nap.

At the start of the year, I was complaining about how unsynchronized the 2 kids' schedules were -- but I guess this was the reason for it --

11/23/2011

Do you speak video games? --

Yesterday afternoon, we needed to pick up our helper's urinalysis results and decided to make the best of the late afternoon by going out to dinner with the kids.

A Taekwondo school opened right outside our subdivision and Johann has been intrigued by it -- he pointed it out to the kids and asked if they would like to learn Taekwondo --

Answers:
Seth: No.  (At first.)
Anya:  Yes.  (Resounding and with no hesitation.)

Anya continues:  I like fighting lots and lots of people.  (She does this on the Wii, playing the swords showdown on Wii Resort.)  I like kicking.  (This one, I don't know why.)

Finally, Seth says:  I want to try.

Johann is pleased.  (He wants Seth to do something physical.)

Seth asks:  Do you have lots of life?

Johann answers:  Seth, this is real life.  We don't have hit points.

O_o

10/27/2011

Mental note to self regarding next year's Halloween --

1.  Don't bother planning the 2 kids' costumes too early.  They will not wear it.
<-- I have been thinking about and planning the costumes as early as August this year.  I had them made last September and they were delivered early last week.

I've chronicled how insanely indecisive the two kids have been regarding what they would wear for Halloween.  I listened to them and said yes -- hoping that they would eventually settle to liking the costumes I had made for them.

Now, they don't want to wear the costumes because they want to wear a different one.  Seth wants to be Captain Bubble from an episode of Backyardigans -- and Anya wants to be whatever Seth wants to be.

Next year, I will just wait until the last minute and let them grab a costume off the racks in SM.  I think it will be cheaper and less taxing for me.

And nothing so elaborate.

(We have a plan B:  They still have their Batman/Batgirl costumes and their Pablo/Uniqua costumes.)

2.  It is a good thing not to give away candy.
<-- This year, I got small face towels which cost 10 pesos each.  I like the idea because the kids can use the face towels well after Halloween is over.  (Johann thinks we will be known as the "boring" house where the kids didn't get candy.)

10/23/2011

Notes From a Dragon Mom from the NY Times

This was shared on our ML --

I thought I would a link here just so I can come back and re-read it to remind myself what really matters.

Notes From a Dragon Mom

I would walk through a tunnel of fire if it would save my son. I would take my chances on a stripped battlefield with a sling and a rock à la David and Goliath if it would make a difference. But it won’t. I can roar all I want about the unfairness of this ridiculous disease, but the facts remain. What I can do is protect my son from as much pain as possible, and then finally do the hardest thing of all, a thing most parents will thankfully never have to do: I will love him to the end of his life, and then I will let him go.
- excerpt from the essay

This conversation really happened --

Johann and I went out to get Seth's milk -- when we came home, Anya excitedly showed us her hairdo -- the yaya had tied it nicely and Anya really liked how it looked.  She kept looking at herself in the mirror --

I told her:  "Anya, you're so pretty."

To which the little girl replies, "Mama, you're pretty."

So I said, "No, you're pretty."

... can you guess where this conversation is going?

She goes to her Papa, "Papa, you're pretty."

So Johann replies, "No, you're pretty."

O_o